Actually, there are a few ways to get a first date from him, but because each person’s situation is different, each guy will have different personalities, so you will have to be flexible in applying them.
Love at first sight, love at first sight
1. Be yourself: No matter who you like, just be yourself. If the person you like also likes you back, that’s great, but make sure they like you for you.
2. Dress comfortably: Normally, if you go out on a date with friends wearing jeans and a t-shirt, you can wear them comfortably like that, not because you know in advance you will meet a guy that your friend wants to introduce
3. Choose clothes that flatter your figure: Flattering your figure doesn’t mean sacrificing comfort.
4. Don’t be fake: When you two talk to each other, you will both share your interests with each other.
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With just a little effort, both sides can find common ground
5. Eye contact: Eyes are the window to the soul, sometimes eyes can express many things that spoken language cannot express.
6. Smile charmingly: Similar to eyes, a charming smile can make your guy fall in love with your irresistible charm.
7. Be clear with signals: You don’t have to say out loud that you like him, you can send out signals instead of saying what you want to say, people call this the green light.
8. Have free time: Let him know you are single and also want to open up opportunities to get acquainted, make friends, or even go further than that.
9. Take the initiative: Some guys seem shy even though they really like you but don’t know how to ask them out. Sometimes it’s also a good thing for a woman to take the initiative to invite the other person out a second time.
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Women being proactive in love is not a bad thing, who knows, maybe you will get a sweet ending.
10. Create accessibility: I’m not saying you have to be accommodating.
11. Find out the similarities: Even though we know that each person has different interests.
12. Cherish the time together: If you are destined to know each other, because you both met on the occasion of hanging out with a group of friends, or participating in an activity together, feel free to have fun together.
13. Be witty: A witty girl who knows how to make others laugh is a smart and attractive girl.
14. Don’t create distance with friendship: Many girls want to become friends with the guy they like first, which in theory is very reasonable because all lasting love must come from friendship.
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In order for the opponent to fall, grace is necessary
15. Stay away from fan advisors: Many of your friends claim to be experts in love and they often give you a lot of advice.
16. Take action: After a few green signals have been sent and you see them working: You’ve felt how warmly he welcomes your signals, take the next step forward.
17. Find a reason to be with him: If you’re hanging out with your group of friends, find a few moments to be with him and chat a little with him.
18. Flirting: For both men and women, flirting is an art.
19. Listening: the ability to listen attentively to talking, at least proves that you respect the other person, is a premise for both sides to share more through listening more.
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Romantic gestures will help you have sweet love
20. Don’t talk too much about yourself: If you share about yourself, you should also take time for him to talk about himself too.
21. Talk about upcoming events: like a movie coming out, a concert next week, or a new restaurant opening soon, etc.
22. Stop at the climax: When you feel like the conversation is about to hit a dead end because you run out of ideas and resources to discuss, or cleverly tell him you have something to do and leave, he
23. Be happy and full of energy: no one likes to be with a girl who always emits negative and sad energy.
24. Make him think he’s a great guy: Don’t be afraid to compliment him on his strengths.
25. Be confident: Confidence in yourself is an attractive personality.
26. Don’t be too obsessed with the past: Even though you have gone through ugly experiences, life is still beautiful.
27. Be patient: Even though you are waiting and searching for too long, sometimes your impatient haste will make you less attractive and charming than your true abilities.
28. Don’t make it difficult for yourself: If unfortunately he doesn’t have the same feelings as you, don’t worry too much and feel depressed right away, he’s just not the right person for you.
Looks like, getting a first date from him isn’t that hard, right?
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